CONVERSATION: MAN IN THE SHEETS, WOMAN IN THE STREETS..

One question:

 Can you PROUDLY date a Drag Queen? Why or why not.

CONVERSATION:MORE HARM than GOOD?

POSITIVE REPRESENTATION? OR NEGATIVE RE-ENFORCEMENT?

Most Blay gay men are labeled, Stunt queens, Label chasing, Catty,Grandstanding posers...mostly withing in the gay community. So after watching the clip below, I was not surprised to see the aforementioned subjects touched upon.The question comes, if this show is picked up...will it do more harm than good, for the black gay community?

CONVERSATION: Does being a Gay man, mean being Feminine?

Recently I went to dinner with some of my Hetro homies, a new dude came alone with us. 


Everyone knows about me, we have been friends with years, well while eating, they new guy 


says...so your the gay one? You don't act gay or look gay. My friends just stopped eating...I 


looked a the dude and said..."neither do you."...I think he got the hint. now I love when people 


are themselves. do you have fun. But its obvious that most of mainstream america, think that 


gay men are automatically feminine. When I meet women that try to come on to me, and I tell 


them that I am gay, they automatically assume I am down low, and I am not...i am just private 


and proud of it. There are some feminine brother out there, no big deal....be you. BUT when 


does it cross the line in to attention whoring?when does it become a caricature, a stereo type 


that is unfortunately attached to every gay man? Does the gay community have a shortage of 


"regular, masculine men?" Talk back,